Today’s podcast episode is a Member of the Month episode, where we get to know one of our fellow NAIWE members.

Our guest today is Alfred O’Neill.

A.E.S. O’Neill grew up going to private school paid for by a mobster father, rocks out to the Grateful Dead and Beethoven for inspiration, reads comics to never lose his inner-child, and disregards most of society’s rules—except for the importance of decency, empathy and humanity. From a childhood marked by wiretaps, mob dinners, and FBI agents following his father, O’Neill learned to understand the complexities of love, crime, and human behavior that drives right and wrong. Despite all of his own life’s more challenging lessons, O’Neill knows that love will always win.

 

Q: Please share a little of your professional history with our readers.

As a marketing executive, communication in all forms was crucial to developing and articulating conceptual ideas and strategies – and in the last decade or so, travel blogging, fiction, and poetry also honed those skills. But writing and a chameleon’s ability with language for so many different audiences was a critical skill I was fortunate to have. I have written dozens of industry B2B articles, blogged for more than 15 years, and written a million presentations, dozens of public speeches, poems, and now novels. The influence of my working on a vaccine during the pandemic made extrapolating what could happen with Covid a few years out; l made it a mundane everyday danger and how we would adjust.

I tried to create a side career to be a travel writer because my wife and I were traveling to so many fascinating and magical places – like the New Years’ private Golden Eagle train trip through central Europe ending in Vienna. The travel blog’s motto was “Equal in praise and damnation.” It was also an expression of how she inspired me: www.outspokentraveler.com. Life got in the way of that pursuit, though the years of blogging honed my voice.

 

Q: How and when did you make this business a reality?

The two LLCs are AESON Publishing for my novels and writings and HarbingerAssociates.net for marketing consulting, which involves a fair amount of writing. Every month, I refine the juggling act on how the latter pays for the former.

I am fortunate that my marketing network is good, but it takes a lot of work to chase any project. AESON Publishing is still in an early phase, with the marketing falling into place as I move to finish book 2 in the series, “Even Climate Change Can’t Stop Love and Murder. Book 2, Paying the Price”. Publishing LLC is in the marketing and writing phases of establishing my voice in the crowd.

 

Q: What’s the most important lesson you’ve learned so far in your career?

Nothing is a straight line, so you need to be open, really open, to opportunities. Self-doubt can be a visitor, but not stay over, you have work to do. Always stop and recognize, in a humble and quiet way, your accomplishments. That is not Ego, it is healthy pride.

 

Q: Are you working on any personal writing projects at this time?

Number 2, in the 3-part romance crime thriller novel, “Even Climate Change Can’t stop Love and Murder.” Climate change is as evil and destructive as the bad guy white supremacists. Book one was “Even A Pandemic Can’t Stop Love and Murder”. www.evenapandemic.com

Ginger and Alby venture to Arizona. The road trip is wild and their Sedona escapades caught between love, bad guys and bad climate, flavored by their 1930’s-style banter make the story more humorous and heartfelt.

 

Q: Are you working on any special projects you’d like to tell us about?

National Gallery of Kindness. A side hobby but personally important. In my lowest moments of grieving, I became attuned to the kindness of people and wanted to celebrate it. Gallery of Kindness is the Facebook page, it is me being part of a community.

 

Q: What are some of the teachers, books, or authors who have influenced your professional life in a positive way?

Having a mother as a psychologist, archetypes and human behavior have always been a fascination, and Jung is a big influence.

My favorite books in the genre that influenced me are Dashiell Hammett, especially the Continental Op. Also, the Swedish detective writer from the 1960s, Maj Stowell, who was brilliant on all levels.

Back to the archetypes: on an ongoing basis I am always re-reading sections of Ulysses by Homer and a wide range of modern poetry. Last, I dabble in the ancients – Suetonius, Caesar, Agricola, Livy, Plutarch, Thucydides, Herodotus, Pliny – I enjoy dipping into the history pool for how stories are told.

 

Q: As a seasoned professional, what advice would you offer someone who is just beginning a career?

Focus on two or three – no more – skills that match what you do best with what the market is looking for. We live in an age where nuance or a passion/specialty is appreciated.

Network endlessly but sincerely. Authenticity is what will make you memorable. Your personal brand will not succeed without a human side to it.

You can have a dream, but you do not need to start at the end result. You need to pave the road first to get there.

 

Q: What inspires you?

Besides my two children and a score of amazing people I am lucky to know? People I meet every day. Small interactions. Nature rules. Listening to the wind in the trees. A slow hike with a majesty all around. Rich experiences: The first bite of a great entrée. Being in love. Loving just Being. Waking up and saying “Hello World!” Always waiting for someone to yell back.

Art, paintings mostly. Love everything but true abstract.

Live classical music.

Poetry.

 

Q: How has your membership in NAIWE benefited you professionally?

Having just joined, the community aspects look very good.

 

Q: Is there anything else you’d like to share?

The world of language and the written word is one of the pinnacles of human achievement. How great we are all part of it.

Today’s podcast episode is a Member of the Month episode, where we get to know one of our fellow NAIWE members.

Our guest today is George De Stefano.

George De Stefano is a New York–based writer and editor specializing in culture and politics. He is the author of An Offer We Can’t Refuse: The Mafia in the Mind of America (Farrar, Straus, Giroux) and a contributor to numerous other books, including the Routledge History of Italian Americans; Mafia Movies (University of Toronto); The Essential Sopranos Reader (University of Kentucky Presses); and Reggae, Rasta, and Revolution (Schirmer Trade Books). His forthcoming book is Gumbo Italiano: How the Sicilians Made New Orleans. His writing has appeared in The Nation, Newsday, Film Comment, The Advocate, The Italian American Review, Gay and Lesbian Review Worldwide, and the online publications PopMatters, Rootsworld, the New York Journal of Books, La Voce di New York, and I-Italy. He also is a freelance editor for academic and trade publishers of books and journals, and for nonprofit organizations.

 

Q: Please share a little of your professional history with our readers.

I began my professional life as a journalist, reporting and writing feature articles for a weekly paper in Connecticut. I then became the arts editor of a New Haven weekly while also contributing articles and reviews to such publications as The Nation, Cineaste, Film Comment, the Advocate, Newsweek, and other newspapers and magazines. In the late 1980s, I went to social work school because I wanted to contribute to the fight against AIDS. I then worked in public health for 25 years while continuing to freelance. I published my first book while employed by a public health department. After leaving full-time employment in 2013, I began my editing business, GdS Editorial Services, while also working on my own writing.

 

Q: How and when did you make this business a reality?

In September 2013, I set up my editing business, GdS Editorial Services.

 

Q: What’s the most important lesson you’ve learned so far in your career?

That there is a dialectic between writing and editing: one informs the other. Editing other writers’ works, helping them say what they want to say as effectively as possible has made me a better writer. I read my own work much more closely and critically.

 

Q: Are you working on any personal writing projects at this time?

I am now finishing my nonfiction book, Gumbo Italiano: How the Sicilians Made New Orleans.

 

Q: Are you working on any special projects you’d like to tell us about?

I am just finishing my book and getting the manuscript in shape to go to my editor.

 

Q: What are some of the teachers, books, or authors who have influenced your professional life in a positive way?

I have been an avid reader since I was a child. My mother often would say that when she wanted a break from her homemaking duties, she’d give me a book to read and then I’d be out of her hair for hours. When I became a writer, I retained the reading habit I’d acquired as a child. Novels, short stories, books about history, politics, culture—I devoured them all. From them, I learned invaluable lessons about craft and how writing can have an impact on readers and the world.

 

Q: As a seasoned professional, what advice would you offer an independent writer or editor who is just beginning a career?

Read a lot—widely and critically. Take an editing course or two and join professional organizations like NAIWE that can help newbies build their careers. Be patient, too, because building a successful career takes time.

 

Q: What inspires you?

Great literature and intelligent critical writing about it in such publications as the London Review of Books and the New York Review of Books. The arts, especially music, and especially jazz, with its dialectic of freedom and discipline. The lives of great fighters for freedom and social justice. The constant and unstinting support from my partner, Rob.

 

Q: How has your membership in NAIWE benefited you professionally?

My NAIWE website has exposed my writing and editorial services to a wider audience. I’ve also gotten excellent tips and advice from other members of NAIWE about the craft and business of editing.

 

Q: Is there anything else you’d like to share?

I am so looking forward to a return to some degree of normal life after two years of a pandemic hell. I can’t wait to go to restaurants again, to jazz clubs, plays, and travel.